Truth v/s feeling good?

Hello! It's been a while since my last update. Today I’ll write about being honest vs making someone feel good.

Most of the time, it’s really hard to choose between telling the truth or making someone happy with what we say. I’ve been in both situations and i tell myself "Mmh, but they look so fine". Haven’t you?

I've always thought that being honest is more important than the way the truth makes people feel. I believe that, instead of helping, we're doing more harm than good. If you tell someone "I like this" when you actually don’t, you might well worsen the situation.

For example, I have a friend and he doesn’t go to classes but he’s at every party. In that case, I tell him directly "you know? You’re smoking a lot" or "hey! you are not studying". If there’s anything I don’t like about someone, I think about how to tell them that and I do it. 

Of course being so sincere got me in troubles, but let’s look at the bright side: the truth is always discovered and I never had to apologise for what I said.

Xoxo :)